Your PK reasonings has been explained in a long paragraph, and the logical argument of a person you have beef with disappearing when you were with him on the boathouse just for your friend to be at the place which isnt involved with the faction in any way to threaten people to leave with gloves on is enough reason for any organisation to assume worst of it when the guy sitting there suddenly disappears and loses contact in every way for the whole day.
Rest is just answering to your being loud to be right, you were a big problem in the faction and you were expected to be removed. If we're gonna speak about incompetence you never took up to the task or upheld the duties I have told you many times to make sure members are making money for the faction, security of the boathouse, actually acting as a Underboss rather than a foot soldier hanging around on his own until he has to be instructed by even how to breathe. You just worked for yourself I had to be on every night to do your work as the Boss of family so I dont think you have the say on competence.
You pk'd Mike for "Shooting at Close Business Partners" which you mentioned to me that the person shoot him was an admin removing the light in Boathouse which you turned into Public Theater, then he sat down and watch the movie which smells failrp that he came as an admin and stayed there ontop of that shot Mike just because he was making him leave.
And you are claiming metagame because some stuff have been discussed through dm's yet you recieve information from dm's and come to the place because of the "ooc information" as you claim even though you weren't getting on purpose and constantly delaying like as the meeting that was gonna be held because of your stunt with public movie night. And many more infractions can show that you discuss stuff through dm's and do them ingame which I dont think matches up with what you are claiming right here.
You have stepped out of line many times, failed to do your work, created drama, compromised safety of the boathouse and members many many times, and primary suspect of a member who vanished without a trace even though he was praised by the whole faction and didnt have anything to be scared of at the moment.
I will refrain from feeding you any longer as all the reasons are sufficient enough, too bad you couldnt crash out on your own and salty because of that but you are finally out of the game which you wanted to leave anyways.