i think it makes sense for actions that would need a /me to be seen if that makes sense.
You can see someone clearly see who is cuffing someone so it doesnt really make sense for that.
When it comes to eating too, i think having the freedom to do your own gives to the RP a lot more then forcing a preset.
However, i do agree with the defiling, i think anything that cant be seen and would need to be seen for legal rp for example should have a automated /me bound to it.
i also agree to add a /me for restraining since this can be used from just the context menu with no real pointers of whos doing it, currently with how it works you have 0 idea who attempted to tie you when your in a crowd and i think thats a little bit silly