as you can see in the clip that wasen't me first of all when he had the chance to leave he decided to run back as you can see in th clip also you talking about offending is not a reason However if someone continues to disrespect you, you may physically intimidate or hit them. (Fists, melee weapon) As continued disrespect could realistically start a fight. The user then has free choice on how to respond/retaliate. i think you should read the rules